“Your eyes are beautiful”, first session of an observation
Abstract
This is the report of a first observation session, punctuated by comments coming from the supervision work and concluded by a series of more global considerations, which allow to inscribe what was said within a family and physiological evolutionary path.In this text is constantly present the passage between what the family actually puts in place during the session, the contemporary emotional state of the observer, who participates in what happens and questions herself, without yet formulating explanations and, finally, the real elaborations, coming from the supervision sessions that allow to pass from an observation without judgment to an interpretation of what happened. This organization was chosen to underline the different positions in which an observer finds himself: from a participant character of the actions to elaborating figure that allows to give a meaning and an order to what happened.